As long time supporter and being software dev, why on earth did you not join testnet, and ran a test on mainnet?
Not trying to pick a fight, truly! But you're not making sense. No testnet, dont agree with the absolutely logical and understandable closed-source, for a "massive loss" you dont even have private keys dumped, you didnt encrypt the wallet, c'mon!
You cannot stop the daemon with CTRL+C. Its "darkcoind stop".
You are the first and only to experience such phenomena.
Could please stop antagonizing an obvious community desperately trying to help you?